Okay so you are feeling a bit impatient. You want to develop your attraction potential and all that. But you really just want to go meet a woman today. The truth of the matter is that there are no quick fixes. But if you just want to get out there and jump into the deep end then here is some advice off the top of my head for you.
Understand The Numbers!
You must understand that there are some women out there that you will be attracted too that will instantly be attracted to you. You must forget about stereotypes – that hot women are attracted to hot men etc. Get it through your head right now that some women will be attracted to you simply because you are their type. Some models are attracted to nerds (as long as they are confident). Some women are turned off by the male model type hot body because they have been hurt by men who look like this, so they believe that a less hot man will not be such a cold jerk. These are a couple reasons why certain women will respond to you. It’s all about the timing in their life, etc. So once you understand this just get out there and go with the numbers.
Look Forward to Rejection!
To find that girl we must have fun with the rejection. Every time you get a rejection give her a high five for rejecting you because now you are that much closer to finding that 1 out of 10 girl that will be attracted to you. “that’s 1 down. YES!!!”, “that’s 4 down. NOW I’M REALLY ON A ROLE!!!”
Have a great time with this process. FUN ENERGY is VERY ATTRACTIVE!! Maybe even bring a buddy to make it more fun.
Print up business cards to hand out to each of these women. They may reject you at the moment but then regret later when they think about how their rejection didn’t bring you down.
FUN BUSINESS CARD
Put a silly ass picture on the card. If they ask “what’s that picture about?” Tell them “You’ll find out over coffee.” Then over coffee, when they ask, tell them “I have no clue! but it’s funny as hell! What do you think it is??”
Remember The NonGame is about not playing games with her heart and not deceiving to get what you want. But creating fun games to make yourself and her smile is always a winner.
Okay so maybe these ideas are a little nutty but I did just make them up off the top of my head. If they are funny to you then use them. Don’t worry about if the girls like them. If you think they are hilarious then use them and let come what may. Don’t forget to add your phone number of course.
If the girls ask you if you are handing them out to every girl, just say “Only the girls that are too cute to like me. I’m just hoping one of them is slightly blind. Are you slightly blind?? (wink wink)” Or something fun and self deprecating. Making fun of yourself is attractive and shows confidence.
Hand out 50 to 100 of these and wait and see who responds. Remember to make sure you are having fun with this process. Your fun energy is a powerful key to attraction.
A few years ago when I was hanging out with some friends in downtown Las Vegas, I got a wild hair and tried an experiment. I stood on the street and said the most ridiculous pickup line I could think of. I wasn’t trying to attract women. It just seemed like it would be hilarious. So every woman that came by, I said “Excuse me!” with a confident voice, then when they stopped in their tracks, with some slight over-acting, as if I was asking them to marry me, I said “If you were a booger, you’d be the first one I’d pick!” I was just busting myself up every time I said it. Women were just laughing and continuing on by. Then one woman came and started playing around with me, acting like she was going to pick my nose. The moral of this story is if you will just say something to women, ANYTHING, you are giving the ones that would naturally be attracted to you the opportunity to talk to you. Bingo! Bango! Bongo! Get it!?
By the way since you are feeling so impatient just go get my Audio Program. It cuts through all the theory and takes you directly to the streets of Las Vegas, showing you the best concepts to use in the REAL WORLD. Good luck!
What’s really happening?: Creating fun environments and creative ways to play is very important at, what I call, the “investment stages” of increasing attraction energy. YOU are learning to have more fun (super important) while at the same time you are witnessing others having fun and smiling BECAUSE OF YOU. The more these positive and self-created experiences soak into mind and memory, the more your expectation of negative reactions becomes a thing of the past. This raises confidence and attraction energy. You begin to expect people to react positively to you. And your expectation creates its own reality. The more investment of this type of energy now, the less necessary it will be later because you will be so full of attraction energy that it will draw women to you with less effort.
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